<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[I Need a Life Coach]]></title><description><![CDATA[I Need a Life Coach]]></description><link>https://davidaf2021.wixsite.com/website/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2026 21:59:11 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://davidaf2021.wixsite.com/website/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Why Do I Feel Stuck in Life When Everything Is Going Well?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Your life looks good on paper. Your job is fine, your finances are under control, your relationships are mostly good, and you have a place to live and people who care about you.  Nothing is obviously falling apart, yet something doesn't feel right. You're not miserable, but you're not particularly excited either. You're not lost, but you don't feel like you're moving toward anything that matters. That can be one of the strangest places to find yourself. When life is clearly difficult, at...]]></description><link>https://davidaf2021.wixsite.com/website/post/why-do-i-feel-stuck-in-life-when-everything-is-going-well</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ac6861d1a6470e6cb9f7c77</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Oct 2026 17:45:03 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/dc8c6c_c58b23f7099a454799b98105c4525955~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_941,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>davidaf2021</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[What If You Stopped Trying to Control Everything?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Most men spend a significant part of their lives trying to make sure nothing goes wrong. Build the career. Make the money. Protect the reputation. Choose the right people. Avoid stupid decisions. Keep your emotions under control. Know where you are going. It makes sense. Responsibility matters. But there is a strange problem with becoming very good at controlling your life. You can become so good at eliminating uncertainty that you also eliminate surprise. I didn't understand this when I...]]></description><link>https://davidaf2021.wixsite.com/website/post/what-if-you-stopped-trying-to-control-everything</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ac3d23ef42c05251bc34ebd</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Oct 2026 17:43:26 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/dc8c6c_244086785fd14a3294a104615cf29071~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>davidaf2021</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Opportunity Hidden Inside the Life You Want to Escape]]></title><description><![CDATA[I spent my life learning how ordinary people transform into extraordinary versions of themselves. Through music, travel, teaching, and thousands of conversations with people trying to figure out what comes next, I began noticing something that changed the way I look at life: the greatest opportunities are often hidden inside the situations we desperately want to escape. That sounds strange when you're in the middle of a difficult season. When you're frustrated with your career, struggling...]]></description><link>https://davidaf2021.wixsite.com/website/post/the-opportunity-hidden-inside-the-life-you-want-to-escape-1</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6abd73e46b3ed45d65f8c9ad</guid><pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2026 20:42:56 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/dc8c6c_fe2afa8cc16546888fff306aebb0420e~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_887,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>davidaf2021</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[What If Success Isn't the Goal? ]]></title><description><![CDATA[There was blood on the sidewalk. Only minutes earlier I had been inside a nightclub in Glasgow, chatting with a guy I'd met less than ten minutes before. Without warning, the conversation ended as fists started flying across the room. People who had looked perfectly normal moments earlier were suddenly swinging at one another as if they had rehearsed it. I had no interest in finding out what started it, and even less interest in becoming part of it, so I slipped outside. The street wasn't any...]]></description><link>https://davidaf2021.wixsite.com/website/post/what-if-success-isn-t-the-goal</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a74c19022f2ed6db245a479</guid><pubDate>Tue, 08 Sep 2026 14:44:30 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/dc8c6c_4186d7048a1540348aa416555325be6a~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>davidaf2021</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Opportunity Hidden Inside the Life You Want to Escape]]></title><description><![CDATA[I spent my life learning how ordinary people transform into extraordinary versions of themselves. Through music, travel, teaching, and thousands of conversations with people trying to figure out what comes next, I began noticing something that changed the way I look at life: the greatest opportunities are often hidden inside the situations we desperately want to escape. That sounds strange when you're in the middle of a difficult season. When you're frustrated with your career, struggling...]]></description><link>https://davidaf2021.wixsite.com/website/post/the-opportunity-hidden-inside-the-life-you-want-to-escape</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a985369c44e302e1505f8db</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Sep 2026 19:33:40 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/dc8c6c_9f0f7ac50bdf4bcc8acac5bf155ba4b2~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>davidaf2021</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Wrong Answer: What a Stranger in London Taught Me About Purpose and Becoming the Man I Was Meant to Be]]></title><description><![CDATA[It was almost 1 am in King's Cross Station. I was washing my hands in a bathroom sink, a violin case strapped to my back, seven hours to kill before a 6:30am flight to Glasgow, and zero intention of paying for a hotel. A stranger walked up and asked, "Is that a violin or a viola?" "It's a violin," I said. And just like that, I was telling a total stranger where I was going, what flight I needed to catch, and every detail of my situation. I don't know why I was so forthcoming. I just was. He...]]></description><link>https://davidaf2021.wixsite.com/website/post/the-wrong-answer-what-a-stranger-in-london-taught-me-about-purpose-and-becoming-the-man-i-was-meant</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a6a36385329f38dcec70bf4</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2026 16:38:21 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/dc8c6c_5921edef222e4f208f44f8ebad049faa~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>davidaf2021</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Trip That Almost Never Happened]]></title><description><![CDATA[There are moments in life that seem insignificant at the time but quietly alter the course of your future. They don't announce themselves as turning points. They don't arrive with dramatic music or flashing lights. They often come disguised as disappointment, forcing you to make a decision that feels small in the moment but becomes monumental when you look back years later. One of those moments happened because someone sent me a text message. For months, a friend and I had planned a...]]></description><link>https://davidaf2021.wixsite.com/website/post/the-trip-that-almost-never-happened</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a622471424f5a9980a4ee4b</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2026 14:27:30 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/dc8c6c_21a92987b188449a95c766b2ef93a465~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>davidaf2021</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Your Situation Is Your Opportunity]]></title><description><![CDATA[The strangest thing about life is that the moments that change us rarely announce themselves when they arrive. They do not walk into our lives wearing a name tag that says, “This is going to be important. Pay attention.” Most of the time, they arrive disguised as something else. They look like rejection. They look like uncertainty. They look like a problem we wish we did not have to deal with. And because we cannot immediately see what is hidden inside the situation, we often judge it too...]]></description><link>https://davidaf2021.wixsite.com/website/post/your-situation-is-your-opportunity</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a5a5d8a218815cf7a251f09</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2026 16:57:08 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/dc8c6c_88b2859fdc6241d8b6845e06d8658bc5~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>davidaf2021</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>